"My people are destroyed....

Man fears what he has no knowledge of. Once he understands it, the fear is gone. the mystery is taken away once knowledge arrives. It's the same thing with the matters of faith when we don't understand how to apply your faith in a given situation, we become skeptical, judgmental, afraid, and unbelieving. But once we understand how it works, the confusion is removed, the mystery is taken away. Amen,

Friday, August 18, 2017

The Cost of The Clean Up

Singled, What The Enemy meant for your Bad God meant for good. I know how much blood God sacrificed for me and blocked things from decisions and choices I made that would've took me out....See the.devil wants you to be silent and not give the praise, don't let sin keep you from God or kill your dreams, or your joy and.not trust people. How do you deal with the clean up? Acknowledge it...don't walk around like you are better, you dont get to judge me because your sin is different, dont judge a person because they don't dress right, or look like the slept outside, maybe they did and you shouldn't be.worried about what I'm at the alter for, some of us Christians walk around like we are better.than other Christians and we are not, we are supposed to love one another as Christ loved us.....

You ever see people that leave any kind of way not serving God and look older than they are? But when they see yoy they ask wow your skin looks so smooth....healthy? The answer is in who I serve!

Pastor John Gray,
Carol Burns, DMD Productions.....

Wednesday, July 26, 2017

Chose Wisely...

How dare you make light of someone's commitment to God, just because you are there...it seems like some people have added Jesus to their lives..instead of  submitting to Jesus in your life. Truthfully.....

Singles, Being with God does not come with conditions, judgement, or how many events or activities you attend, your relationship with God is personal, not conditional.  Although he said do not forsake the fellowship/Assembly of the brethren, it does not mean that God loves them more and you less,first ministry for us singles are often ignored by congregation that are not trained in meeting the needs of them. All of the Prophet's of the Bible sought God Alone, and were witnessed to by Christ without the distraction from others. In your solitude;

Love God with all your heart no matter how much they talk about you, oust you and try to ignore the gifts God has given you. This just shows their lack of maturity in the things of God, and do not know Love.

Singles, as we add another chapter of our Lives, The Blessed Life, we are reminded and assured that we matter whether they accept us ot not...forever in his arms.....

Remember live your Life Loved and keep the Faith always....

Wednesday, July 12, 2017

Dear Life, Thank you

Problems and predicaments come to us all. There's no sign saying, "you must be this tall..." to ride on the emotional roller coasters that take so many of us for a spin. The bad news is that there are times when we're passengers...whether we like it or not. The good news is that we can always choose to get off at the next stop...(Douglas Pagels)

Single's,  as we look back on the things life has taught us, and continue to press on through this gift called life, remember that you have total control over how anyone treats you. Demand in a gentle way to, not entertaining foolishness from those who are old enough to know better, but still continue to live in chaos. Separate yourself away from (Vampires) who suck the life out of you, and anyone who is not bringing joy in your life.

Carol, Live Your Life Loved and remember always to keep the faith....

Saturday, July 1, 2017

You Don't Deserve A Name

Fear you have always consumed me whenever I got fired from a job or raising my children as a single parent, or the past failed relationships. I thought it was me, or something lacking in me, but I realized that it was the enemy planting lies in my mind about who he was trying to destroy.

The biggest challenge I've had was my relationship with my Mother and the love I felt I was missing from her, that I so desperately needed as a young woman growing up. When I speak to my sisters, we all bear pain/scars from our past of not having the loving kind of relationship with her or the reaffirmation of her feminity and love for her daughters. But I realized as I've grown as a parent. That she herself has been through a painful past that she still bears scars from. There were times in my past and not to distant future, that I did not fill adequate enough to be in a healthy relationship because of the abuse I suffered as a child. My sister and I experienced this traumatic experience when we were young and I think that we are in some way as we became parents, handling it the best way we can.

Fear, all the lies that you have told me because of my past. I have turned them into my fuel to fail forward. The jobs I've gotten fired from in the past, that was their loss for not recognizing an extraordinary individual. I function with the mind of Christ and refuse to be a victim, those that bless you will be blessed and those that curse me will be cursed Genesis 12:3; Wow! What an amazing Intro, or shall I say the truth about the past of a not so perfect childhood.

Those that hurt as my Pastor friend said, hurt people, hurt others. Singles, if you are experiencing hurt or things from your past that leads you to the same dysfunctional type of relationships. Today it ends here, stands in front of your mirror and say "Carol" I love you, you are a beautiful person, an excellent Mother; you will have a healthy family life, and success in your career, nothing shall prevent the Will of God for your life. Satan I cast you out of any situation that concerns me or my family.

The friendships that were not authentic, God will replace those imposters with authentic bonds. Live your life loved regardless of who's in it. As long as you have Jesus Christ of Nazareth nothing can stop you from becoming who he has called you to be, lack is not your portion, poverty is not your portion; Favor locates you everywhere you go!


Tuesday, June 20, 2017

Facing My Fears & Disruption The Soil in My life

I hit my version of rock bottom and let go of everybody in order to become who I'm supposed to be  Woman... I ate my slice of humble pie... To die to who I used to be....to become who I am truly today...I murdered my Shego....so I could be in a room with strangers at this conference in order to say. I have nothing to protect, nothing to hide so I could grow.

Carol, I forgive you for...
Carol, I'm proud of you....
Carol I love you.....
Carol, I commit to you that....

~Lisa Nichols ~Turn Your Fear Into Fuel

Saturday, June 3, 2017

Spiritual Insight

The more influence of the World you trust, the more it will let you down..when faced with challenges. A life without God is destined for, fear, doubt, and uncertainties. The Devils greatest deception is to work 24hrs & 365days of the year to convince you; you are not worth anything. To KEEP chaos wreaking havoc in your life that you are too distracted to see what gifts you already have.

If there are Vampires, inlaws, toxic family/people, cousins, co-workers...change it! As long as the devil can have you crying behind closed doors or in the dark. He knows you will be too crippled with fear to move. The Battlefield of The Mind....can only be defeated by The understanding of what the Word of God says about your life. Don't hide behind a career or degree to live a life that society thinks you should live or the parental perceptions of what they thought you should be. YOU are you no matter what, and that's.enough. The.challenge you face now will teach you how to maneuver through challenges to come.

Singles, this is straight no chasers Saturday post for the month. Following me on my blog and remember.

Live your life Loved (By Self)enjoy the space your at in your life, make no APOLOGIES to no one about who you are.

Sincerely, Brown Girl#Love My Black

Friday, May 26, 2017

Being Connected To Your Sound Code In Life

Thank you, Holy Spirit, for giving me the strength to walk away from Vampires who were.sucking me dry, and for disrupting the soil in my life to change. I am my Own RESCUE....as Lisa Nichols beautifully said, and until you learn to be alone with yourself and invest in your life by having people in it that are 10steps ahead of you and that are truly vested in you to see you grow. The life you live with be full of impostors sucking you dry from ever seeing your fullest potential.

I will say this again and make no APOLOGIES, Leaving Philadelphia was the best thing I could've done in order to grow. Philadelphia has given me so much love and nurturing to become wise enough to Not Be Afraid..and LEAN IN....to my life. I have nothing to hide, nor do I  claim to know everything. Singles there are times for you to stand with God and NOT give a ......about what anyone else thinks. Even if it means losing those close to you. God and only God holds your future. I don't care who you are and who you were. The PAST does not define you, and if people around you still try to base who you are by who you were in the past. Cast it out in JESUS CHRIST Name, if what they say does not line up with who the Bible says you are...then cancel it. Don't allow their bullying tactics to intimidate you to think they matter.

The Mature nature of a person shows in how they love all the people who are around them, not the ones that made the cut by just fitting in. Take the road less traveled, loose a few impostors in your life. It doesn't matter, God will replace them with true authentic bonds. Never settle for anyone's opinion of you, their opinion is none of your business as Lisa Nichols shared in Abundant Living. Don't be afraid of people, family or friends that do not see God's best for you.

Sincerely, Live Your Life Loved, LEAN IN to your life.

sources: Sheryl Sanberg, LEAN IN &  Lisa Nichols Abundant Living, courtesy of Youtube, respectively,